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George Clooney’s humanitarian aid work. Beyonc\u00e9 championing gender equality. Elon Musk aiming for Mars. With such powerful people in the public eye, it\u2019s easy to think leadership is about changing the world.<\/p>

While it\u2019s good to look up to others and admire their achievements, doing so can make us miss the small stuff. The things we aIl do \u2013 every day \u2013 that improve people\u2019s lives.<\/p>\n\n

Lollipop Moments<\/h2>\n\n

Drew Dudley calls these \u2018lollipop moments\u2019. [1] The term comes from his university days when a student thanked him. Years earlier, she was about to quit uni life when she saw Dudley handing out lollies to raise money for charity. He quipped to the guy beside her, “You need to give a lollipop to the beautiful woman standing next to you.” [2]<\/p>

The moment made such a deep impression that she decided to stay on. What\u2019s more, she dated and eventually married that embarrassed student. (Dudley went to their wedding.) <\/p>\n\n

Starting Small<\/h2>\n\n

The lollipop moment symbolizes the possibility of everyday leadership – or our ability to make the life of another person better<\/strong>. Most of us do it every day, perhaps without even realizing. <\/p>

As Dudley says, “We need to redefine leadership as being about lollipop moments, how many of them we create, how many of them we acknowledge, how many of them we pay forward and how many of them we say thank you for.” [3] <\/p>

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Listen Up<\/h2>\n\n

To impact someone\u2019s life you must first resonate with them. That\u2019s why being a good listener is a useful tool for everyday leaders. When Dudley approached the fresher, he may have spotted slumped shoulders, fidgeting hands or a trembling lip; body language that showed her unease and need of a pick-me-up. Being a good listener means decoding what you hear and see. To improve, you can: <\/p>